How to End a Relationship

How to End a Relationship: Putting an end to a relationship is always a very painful thing to do, imaging yourself without the person you've always loved, the first name on your mind when it comes to sharing thoughts and ideas, and the fear of what might happen between you two when you finally spill it out. Although putting an end to a relationship can be scaring and hard to do, we will reveal ways to ease the hurt in this guide.

It is popularly known that when relationships come to an end, there is so much emotional pain that it may seem impossible to find a way to ease the suffering, on the part of the person seeking to end the relationship, feelings of guilt and remorse might come over you and if you’re the one being left, then the misery of rejection sets in and to add salt to the injury, you may feel that nothing can be done to erase the hurt forever as you will be stuck in the circle of rejection or remorse and may also punish yourself endlessly for not doing a better job of either leaving or accepting easily that you've being left.
This curiosity brings the question, are there ways you and your partner can end things and remain friends? We will answer this question by stating 4 Bad Ways and 4 Good Ways to End a Relationship and you we be sure to discover you can actually remain best of friends with your partner or ex even after breakup.

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4 Bad Ways
We start with four bad ways to end a relationship that can ultimately lead to malaise afterwards.

• Fading away and total disappearance: Leaving your partner without any warning nor any opportunity for contact, can leave you and your partner in a permanent limbo. Fading off from her and eventual disappearance is not the answer when you want to end things

• Self-blaming: Relationships involve two people and when they don’t work together it's a bad thing to do in a relationship. Moving out of a relationship by focusing only on your role will not help you see the warning signs of what might be the next ill-fated event in your relationship. 
• Bad-mouthing: Another bad thing to attempt in a relationship is badmouthing your partner, seeking advice from close friends is cool but there should be limit to things you would say about your partner. Talking to others about how everything was your partner’s fault can create awkwardness for the people who know both of you. 
• Fantasizing: Spending considerable time wondering what your partners were doing after break up is also not a great idea. When you fantasize, you simply become less able to move on to new relationships. 

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4 Good Ways
Who says after a break up you can't be friends with your ex? Find out 4 ideas below that will help you end your relationship on a good note and retains your friendship with your ex.

• Preparing for the end: What actually makes breakup worse is the surprise element. So don’t break up with your partner all of a sudden. Try and amend your relationship and if it can’t be amended, work on how to end things on a good note.
• Protecting each other’s dignity: It’s very important to maintain your self-respect, and that of your partner, so that you can avoid the shame of relationship defeat. 
• Establishing boundaries: After a break up, make it clear just how much contact you wish to have with your ex-partner. 
• Taking the long view: As painful as it might be, the effects of the breakup doesn’t last forever, and may even set the stage for future relationships that you can’t predict from your current vantage point. Ensure your relationship histories become key factors in your life stories.

If you follow these principles and avoid the bad ways to break up, then your relationship with your partner even after break up will remain cool, remember not all break ups must end in a fight or keeping malaise. I hope this guide was helpful?