6 Signs It’s Time to End The Relationship

The importance of relationships cannot be underestimated, the feelings we have towards each other, to our families, to our friends, to the people we care about are best shown when we are in a relationship. There even come a point in romantic relationships when things become serious and one gets the idea of spending your life with this person and crafting your life together is a valid and understandable continuation of this relationship. 

But these things are best said than done as they are not easy to achieve, when that is the case, the question becomes, how do I end things?

Ending a relationship is no easy task even with the experienced people in relationship and it is not a subject that age can help make easier, we already discussed how to end a relationship, if you miss it, Check our previous article on the good and bad ways of ending things with your partner in a relationship. In today’s guide, we will show you the signs that shows it’s time to end a relationship.

Signs It’s Time to End the Relationship
Find below the list of signs that shows it’s time to bite the bullet and end the relationship.

• You don’t trust each other anymore.

The most important part of any relationship is trust and when you lose that, it’s almost certain, the time has come to end the relationship.

• You realize you share different values.

Everyone has distinct values that are important to them, security, freedom, a conservative family, a liberal family, an open marriage and so on, which in some cases are not similar in people in a relationship, whatever your values are, they serve as your aim and goal and when such value contradicts that of your partner, then it's a sign things are going south and decisions need to be made

• You no longer make plans with him or her in mind.

This happens when you slowly push your partner out of your life psychologically. We all make plans for the future, even if they only go as far as the next few weeks or month, in these plans, your partner should always be considered as a part of them, even if the plans don’t directly involve him or her. But when you act or notice otherwise, that you no longer have each other in mind when making plans, then you’ve already psychologically let go and are just treading water. This simply points to ending the relationship so both of you can move on. 

• You no longer have any fun.

Relationship are meant to be fun, you have to enjoy every moment together, no matter the distance, things have to be rosy in a relationship and when that Factor is lost, then it is time to end the relationship.

• You fantasize life with someone else.

It’s without doubt a part of human nature to fantasize, the ability to dream and creatively envision that which may or may not have been, or all that could have been, either in a positive or negative way. When this fantasy is directed to someone else and you only see moments away from your current relationship, then it's better you end things because in one way or the other, you are approaching the end of your relationship.

• You can’t see a future with him or her.

Relationships are simply means of building the idea of creating a future together, shaping and designing the life you are actively choosing to share together. If you cannot imagine a future with your current partner, then what's the point of keeping the relationship, time they say waits for no one, so why choose to remain in a situation you have little emotional investment in? This does not oppose casual relationships, we do not mean they are pointless, they can be fun and an enjoyable experience, but if you’re in a full, long-term relationship with someone, the idea of spending the rest of your life with this person has to be a large contributing factor to the relationship. If you don't envision this, then it’s time to end the relationship and move on.
These are the few signs that shows the red flag to your relationship, serious relationships are meant to be a platform to know each other deeply, so don't waste your time in a relationship, they are supposed to lead to marriage and ultimately a good life.